Cedrick GoodmanHey everyone does anyone other than me, just like tuna fish with mayo, cheese, and a tomato? I don't like all the other crap in it. (smile)
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Van Shivers III YEA .. NOW YOU GOT TO ADD A LIL VINEGAR WHILE MIXING IT WHIT THE MAYO, TOAST THE BREAD, LAY DOWN A BED OF LETTUCE, 2-3 SLICES OF TOMATO DEPENDING ON HOW YOU SLICE THAT .. AND BLAM!! THERE IT IS!
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Crystal Burke instead of the cheese i like lettuce.....
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Tuesday, January 18, 2011
Does having a college degree means your better off than someone without a college degree
Hello family I think its time for a debate: I said debate, not argue meaning discussion guys. (smile) Does having a college degree means your better off than someone without a college degree?
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Yusuf Urban Scholar Spencer Nope!
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Dracy Hyman On average, college graduates do earn more than high school graduates, although the earning differentials between the two may vary over time.....
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Dracy Hyman To me thats the only difference.....although Bill Gates, disproves this theory!
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Yusuf Urban Scholar Spencer Bill and countless others lol.. america has crazy millionaires especially in NJ... assets =millions.....
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Kathy M. Jones No I don't feel it does, but "THEY" want us to believe different.
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Tanya Copprue Absolutely not and I have several!
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Gwendolyn Luckey Ced, I hope Hadi doesn't see this post! I'll tell you why later!
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Gwendolyn Luckey When it comes to certain Jobs, a college degree certainly means that you are better off in obtaining that position, but honestly Ced, I'd like to send a couple of college graduates back to school to learn some Common Sense 101! Some people like to "holla" I have a college degree! But I think they were sitt'n in class on FB!
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Tricia Floyd I would first ask what do you mean by better off. If your talking strictly financially, the chances are that a person with a college degree would make more money however the two people your comparing would have to be of the same age, area, work field, etc. To me, having a college means you have more education in a studied area then a person without a college degree; nothing more, nothing less.
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Cedrick Goodman
Wonderful replies everyone, and there all notably taken. Current data inidicates that those with College Degrees do make more money than those without. Current Data is also indicating that 70% of the current professional work force have col...lege degrees. Now this is not my data but current sensus being distributed.Now I agree education is key to empowerment of all kinds, social, financiall, political, etc. But the question to me is what kind of education will bring about that knowledge to obtain those freedoms we all so desperately strive to obtain. Money buys freedom from debt, buys homes, eliminates homelessness, buys a quality education, buys peace of mine, etc. If the american educational system is failing and is no longer leading the free world and its graduating 80-90% of its people as functional eliterate how educated really are we to compared to the rest or the world who is leading us? Are we really educated? those with College Degree or those with out? Or are we all pawns of a educational system that was desgined to keep us as its labor instead becoming its future leaders in all field areas or stay its cheap labor? hmmSee More
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Cedrick Goodman @Tricia, Very true however today many companies don't care what field of study they just want you to have a degree that shows that you finished. My question to you then is if America promotes for you to get a college eduation to get a great paying job. Is this true as an accurate assessment? or not the reality?
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Gary Lavon Herring Mba *Emphatic* (H) NO! I still question why I went at all! I know why I "needed" to go tho'... Better off? No, bruh - means absolutely nothing to me. I don't have 1 college diploma/degree hanging on ANY wall. G
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Cedrick Goodman G, If this is not true or the reality then why promote it or why continue to say it? Especially when theres no job for you when you finish?
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Tanya Copprue @ Gary, both of my Master's degrees are somewhere in my closet collecting dust! And I'm disertation shy of my Phd. My wit and skills have done more for me than my education, and I'll be paying until I'm 100 to pay for all those degrees!
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Tanya Copprue And the sad part is as a college professor I have to present this front to the youth, that an education will solve their problem, No Capitalism is the ruler and as long as someone controls your paycheck, they control you. We must builld and support our own businesses & real estate!
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Sonja MamaDeac Webster TWO WORDS: Bill Gates (nuff said)
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Tricia Floyd Great question. I would support encouraging everyone to get a college degree because the job market is so competitive. For my job a specific college degree is required and I dont think it could be properly done without a degree in one of two fields. I think overall a college degree will increase your earnings however with certainly degrees it takes time & experience.
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Tricia Floyd However, I agree with Tanya about building self owned business and real estate.
Monday at 5:20pm · LikeUnlike
Tricia Floyd one major downside to certain college degrees is you graduate with loans that ur current income canafford so u become a.hustler by working many jobs or you struggle
Monday at 5:23pm · LikeUnlike
Tanya Copprue
I have many affluent friends and I know Doctors and even some attorneys that are still in debt paying for their education, and I'm a psychotherapist by trade. I teach college also socio-economics, and I know for sure that while education ca...n free anyone, from mental oppression it gives a lot of people, especially black folks a false sense of security and fake a## Superiority over their less fortunate brothers and sisters! This country was founded on capitalism, ruftless capitalism, and unless you understand how to legally play that game, them papers don't mean sh#t! Now I was educated well before I entered college, because I like my father are avid research scholars by nature, a file cabinet with my research, I affectionately call Brutus has been my loyal companion for years. School only enhanced and refined what God already gave me! Had I had known what I know today, I would have invested those thousands of dollars in real estate and smart business moves, and would have been mentored by one of my many millionaire friends, who by the way three of which are highschool drop outs! Hey I'm an educator, I believe in education, but textbooks and degrees don't teach our people how to end poverty or how to stop being a bunch of crabs in a barrel frowning and pulling down a sister or brother who tries to do better!See More
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Cedrick Goodman
Tanya for first lady. lol. Family I posed this question for this reason. Many of the great pioneers who paved the way for all of us, family included did'nt have a college education or access to the internet. They not only were oppressed, di...scriminated against, murdered, and locked out of main stream society with no access to the resources of others but they did more with less. How come those who claim this academia greatness have not come even close to the founders of old who many did'nt even know how to read and write. But did so much more. Tanya I achieved more with out going to college than school could ever teach me. By trade I am a mortgage broker and have invested in real estate and made good money, so I know first hand of that. Status is what society promotes. Capitlism is king and ruler yes, however without knowledge and understanding to obtain or pursue it we stay locked out of ever attaining true financial freedom to change our condition.See More
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Reubina Crayton Well as far as im concerned i would recommend any young women or man to get all the education they could get and while they are getting it specialize in a particular field where you know in most cases you will have a job and mostly its the medical field or either being an educator and thats king of shakey
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Lisa Lee McBride I don't know Tanya but I soooooo "heart" her intelligence., In an effort not to make FB my own personal reality show I will send her a message. That's one smart ass cookie there!!!!!! Dat girl good! LOL
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Lisa Lee McBride meant to say* NOT make FB my own personal reality show* Just would like to hear her thoughts in person. I love reading her responses. Book smart and realistic. Great combo!
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Cedrick Goodman Hey LiLi, how are you?
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Tanya Copprue @ Lisa I've been up & I've been down, and God has been my shield & my strength through it all. I humbly say what I say because it has been lessons well learned! So my ego won't take any credit, but my heart shows appreciation.
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Cedrick Goodman Ok Tanya I want my 50% split for all future book promotional activities. lol.
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Tanya Copprue @ Cedric LMBO, stop posting intriguing and stimulating coversation pieces, and I will quietly ignore them the way I do most of the stuff on FB! Very rarely do I put my two cents or senses into stuff posted on here! It was a good post!
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Tanya Copprue Typo conversation ooops!
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Cedrick Goodman Well I guess you'll be around for a while then. Cause I can't help it. lol.
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Bruce Anderson Sr No Bro. It does not mean you are better off then someone without a degree. Some times the degree can hurt you in many ways. I know this to be a fact.
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Poshjane Doe Used to but don't believe so now
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Linda Anderson
Hi Ced, I think having a degree is very important in the African American Community. The issue is affordability and what school you received the degree from. Most people know that Bill Gates attended an Ivy League school but didnt finish.... Now we have some entertainers who didnt complete college i.e. 50 Cents, to name a few and they are millionaires 10 times over. However the average African American adult would be better off with a degree; however as one of the commentors previously stated and I am paraphrasing, "a degree alone isn't enough" we must find a way to take advantage of the education in an economic way to empower ourselves and our communities. We look around and studies have shown that we spend more than any other race, we are major consumers; yet look at your neighborhood businesses. We could do a lot better if we could just figure out how to provide a service or product that we all need and open our own businessess and support each other financially, politically and most of all spiritually!!!! Again, having a degree helps. Look at Obama his Harvard Colleagues helped get him into the White House, need I say more?See More
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You and Linda Anderson like this.
Yusuf Urban Scholar Spencer Nope!
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Dracy Hyman On average, college graduates do earn more than high school graduates, although the earning differentials between the two may vary over time.....
Monday at 1:55pm · LikeUnlike · 2 peopleShemika MiaLee Nettles and Tricia Floyd like this.
Dracy Hyman To me thats the only difference.....although Bill Gates, disproves this theory!
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Yusuf Urban Scholar Spencer Bill and countless others lol.. america has crazy millionaires especially in NJ... assets =millions.....
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Kathy M. Jones No I don't feel it does, but "THEY" want us to believe different.
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Tanya Copprue Absolutely not and I have several!
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Gwendolyn Luckey Ced, I hope Hadi doesn't see this post! I'll tell you why later!
Monday at 2:28pm · LikeUnlike
Gwendolyn Luckey When it comes to certain Jobs, a college degree certainly means that you are better off in obtaining that position, but honestly Ced, I'd like to send a couple of college graduates back to school to learn some Common Sense 101! Some people like to "holla" I have a college degree! But I think they were sitt'n in class on FB!
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Tricia Floyd I would first ask what do you mean by better off. If your talking strictly financially, the chances are that a person with a college degree would make more money however the two people your comparing would have to be of the same age, area, work field, etc. To me, having a college means you have more education in a studied area then a person without a college degree; nothing more, nothing less.
Monday at 3:39pm · LikeUnlike
Cedrick Goodman
Wonderful replies everyone, and there all notably taken. Current data inidicates that those with College Degrees do make more money than those without. Current Data is also indicating that 70% of the current professional work force have col...lege degrees. Now this is not my data but current sensus being distributed.Now I agree education is key to empowerment of all kinds, social, financiall, political, etc. But the question to me is what kind of education will bring about that knowledge to obtain those freedoms we all so desperately strive to obtain. Money buys freedom from debt, buys homes, eliminates homelessness, buys a quality education, buys peace of mine, etc. If the american educational system is failing and is no longer leading the free world and its graduating 80-90% of its people as functional eliterate how educated really are we to compared to the rest or the world who is leading us? Are we really educated? those with College Degree or those with out? Or are we all pawns of a educational system that was desgined to keep us as its labor instead becoming its future leaders in all field areas or stay its cheap labor? hmmSee More
Monday at 4:02pm · LikeUnlike
Cedrick Goodman @Tricia, Very true however today many companies don't care what field of study they just want you to have a degree that shows that you finished. My question to you then is if America promotes for you to get a college eduation to get a great paying job. Is this true as an accurate assessment? or not the reality?
Monday at 4:17pm · LikeUnlike
Gary Lavon Herring Mba *Emphatic* (H) NO! I still question why I went at all! I know why I "needed" to go tho'... Better off? No, bruh - means absolutely nothing to me. I don't have 1 college diploma/degree hanging on ANY wall. G
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Cedrick Goodman G, If this is not true or the reality then why promote it or why continue to say it? Especially when theres no job for you when you finish?
Monday at 4:28pm · LikeUnlike
Tanya Copprue @ Gary, both of my Master's degrees are somewhere in my closet collecting dust! And I'm disertation shy of my Phd. My wit and skills have done more for me than my education, and I'll be paying until I'm 100 to pay for all those degrees!
Monday at 5:03pm · LikeUnlike · 2 peopleLoading...
Tanya Copprue And the sad part is as a college professor I have to present this front to the youth, that an education will solve their problem, No Capitalism is the ruler and as long as someone controls your paycheck, they control you. We must builld and support our own businesses & real estate!
Monday at 5:06pm · LikeUnlike · 4 peopleLoading...
Sonja MamaDeac Webster TWO WORDS: Bill Gates (nuff said)
Monday at 5:11pm · LikeUnlike
Tricia Floyd Great question. I would support encouraging everyone to get a college degree because the job market is so competitive. For my job a specific college degree is required and I dont think it could be properly done without a degree in one of two fields. I think overall a college degree will increase your earnings however with certainly degrees it takes time & experience.
Monday at 5:17pm · LikeUnlike
Tricia Floyd However, I agree with Tanya about building self owned business and real estate.
Monday at 5:20pm · LikeUnlike
Tricia Floyd one major downside to certain college degrees is you graduate with loans that ur current income canafford so u become a.hustler by working many jobs or you struggle
Monday at 5:23pm · LikeUnlike
Tanya Copprue
I have many affluent friends and I know Doctors and even some attorneys that are still in debt paying for their education, and I'm a psychotherapist by trade. I teach college also socio-economics, and I know for sure that while education ca...n free anyone, from mental oppression it gives a lot of people, especially black folks a false sense of security and fake a## Superiority over their less fortunate brothers and sisters! This country was founded on capitalism, ruftless capitalism, and unless you understand how to legally play that game, them papers don't mean sh#t! Now I was educated well before I entered college, because I like my father are avid research scholars by nature, a file cabinet with my research, I affectionately call Brutus has been my loyal companion for years. School only enhanced and refined what God already gave me! Had I had known what I know today, I would have invested those thousands of dollars in real estate and smart business moves, and would have been mentored by one of my many millionaire friends, who by the way three of which are highschool drop outs! Hey I'm an educator, I believe in education, but textbooks and degrees don't teach our people how to end poverty or how to stop being a bunch of crabs in a barrel frowning and pulling down a sister or brother who tries to do better!See More
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Cedrick Goodman
Tanya for first lady. lol. Family I posed this question for this reason. Many of the great pioneers who paved the way for all of us, family included did'nt have a college education or access to the internet. They not only were oppressed, di...scriminated against, murdered, and locked out of main stream society with no access to the resources of others but they did more with less. How come those who claim this academia greatness have not come even close to the founders of old who many did'nt even know how to read and write. But did so much more. Tanya I achieved more with out going to college than school could ever teach me. By trade I am a mortgage broker and have invested in real estate and made good money, so I know first hand of that. Status is what society promotes. Capitlism is king and ruler yes, however without knowledge and understanding to obtain or pursue it we stay locked out of ever attaining true financial freedom to change our condition.See More
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Reubina Crayton Well as far as im concerned i would recommend any young women or man to get all the education they could get and while they are getting it specialize in a particular field where you know in most cases you will have a job and mostly its the medical field or either being an educator and thats king of shakey
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Lisa Lee McBride I don't know Tanya but I soooooo "heart" her intelligence., In an effort not to make FB my own personal reality show I will send her a message. That's one smart ass cookie there!!!!!! Dat girl good! LOL
Monday at 8:11pm · LikeUnlike
Lisa Lee McBride meant to say* NOT make FB my own personal reality show* Just would like to hear her thoughts in person. I love reading her responses. Book smart and realistic. Great combo!
Monday at 8:15pm · LikeUnlike
Cedrick Goodman Hey LiLi, how are you?
Monday at 8:24pm · LikeUnlike
Tanya Copprue @ Lisa I've been up & I've been down, and God has been my shield & my strength through it all. I humbly say what I say because it has been lessons well learned! So my ego won't take any credit, but my heart shows appreciation.
Monday at 8:58pm · LikeUnlike
Cedrick Goodman Ok Tanya I want my 50% split for all future book promotional activities. lol.
Monday at 9:16pm · LikeUnlike
Tanya Copprue @ Cedric LMBO, stop posting intriguing and stimulating coversation pieces, and I will quietly ignore them the way I do most of the stuff on FB! Very rarely do I put my two cents or senses into stuff posted on here! It was a good post!
Monday at 9:24pm · LikeUnlike
Tanya Copprue Typo conversation ooops!
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Cedrick Goodman Well I guess you'll be around for a while then. Cause I can't help it. lol.
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Bruce Anderson Sr No Bro. It does not mean you are better off then someone without a degree. Some times the degree can hurt you in many ways. I know this to be a fact.
Yesterday at 1:08am · LikeUnlike
Poshjane Doe Used to but don't believe so now
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Linda Anderson
Hi Ced, I think having a degree is very important in the African American Community. The issue is affordability and what school you received the degree from. Most people know that Bill Gates attended an Ivy League school but didnt finish.... Now we have some entertainers who didnt complete college i.e. 50 Cents, to name a few and they are millionaires 10 times over. However the average African American adult would be better off with a degree; however as one of the commentors previously stated and I am paraphrasing, "a degree alone isn't enough" we must find a way to take advantage of the education in an economic way to empower ourselves and our communities. We look around and studies have shown that we spend more than any other race, we are major consumers; yet look at your neighborhood businesses. We could do a lot better if we could just figure out how to provide a service or product that we all need and open our own businessess and support each other financially, politically and most of all spiritually!!!! Again, having a degree helps. Look at Obama his Harvard Colleagues helped get him into the White House, need I say more?See More
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Ladies take care of your man
Cedrick GoodmanOk had a real real stressful day today. Either I need a drink or a nice lady to call me and say Daddy when can I see you. lol. Either way one of us will be feeling a whole lot better. (smile) Boy I just crack myself up sometimes. lol.
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Manuel Santiago A CED GET THE CHICK THAT WANTED HER HAIR PULLED..LOL...
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Dawn Harrell Lopez i bet you do uncle! how you doin (in my Wendy voice lol)
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Cedrick Goodman @Mani, they all want me to pull there hair. lol.
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Lisa Thomas LOL that is funny!!!!
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Janel Hyman When is the next Vacation?
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Wanda Ivette Roman-Cruz HOLA PAPI!!!!
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Wanda Ivette Roman-Cruz Just to cheer u up
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Cedrick Goodman @Dawn please don't do Wendy I think she's awful. Hey I got to call you too.
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Georgene Purnell-Avrette get the drink nobody want u to pull there hair. Anyway weave cost too much 2b let'n some fool pull on it! LMAO
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Dawn Harrell Lopez ut oh! call me? huh? what i do? whatevah it is - IT WASNT ME!! LOL
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Cedrick Goodman @Wanda thanks that sounds so good. lol. @Georgene you know you like it. lol.
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Manuel Santiago A CED I KEEP TELLING THEM AIN'T TO MANY OF US AROUND ANYMORE..THA REAL ONES.....
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Cedrick Goodman @Janel, I'm already over due. Gotta get my money right. This place drains me.
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Cedrick Goodman @Dawn nothing bad. You know unc don't subscribe to that garbage.
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Cassandra Grier Muhammad My Crazy Cousin!
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Cedrick Goodman @Cassandra, come on you know that was a good one. lol,.
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Cassandra Grier Muhammad LOL!
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Cassandra Grier Muhammad Take a nap!
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Cedrick Goodman @Cassandra. (smile)
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Robert McGee I wish for that sometimes and my wife nuges me and whispers..."WAKE UP, IT AIN'T HAPPENIN"".... damn!, sweet dreams....
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Cedrick Goodman @Robert, you gotta give her an incentive bro, (smile)
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Robert McGee Ced, 30yrs Ced...30yrs but she doesn't need to tell me, she knows lol
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Cedrick Goodman Thats what up. (smile)
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Robert McGee LOL
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Manuel Santiago A CED GET THE CHICK THAT WANTED HER HAIR PULLED..LOL...
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Dawn Harrell Lopez i bet you do uncle! how you doin (in my Wendy voice lol)
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Cedrick Goodman @Mani, they all want me to pull there hair. lol.
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Lisa Thomas LOL that is funny!!!!
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Janel Hyman When is the next Vacation?
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Wanda Ivette Roman-Cruz HOLA PAPI!!!!
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Wanda Ivette Roman-Cruz Just to cheer u up
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Cedrick Goodman @Dawn please don't do Wendy I think she's awful. Hey I got to call you too.
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Georgene Purnell-Avrette get the drink nobody want u to pull there hair. Anyway weave cost too much 2b let'n some fool pull on it! LMAO
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Dawn Harrell Lopez ut oh! call me? huh? what i do? whatevah it is - IT WASNT ME!! LOL
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Cedrick Goodman @Wanda thanks that sounds so good. lol. @Georgene you know you like it. lol.
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Manuel Santiago A CED I KEEP TELLING THEM AIN'T TO MANY OF US AROUND ANYMORE..THA REAL ONES.....
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Cedrick Goodman @Janel, I'm already over due. Gotta get my money right. This place drains me.
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Cedrick Goodman @Dawn nothing bad. You know unc don't subscribe to that garbage.
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Cassandra Grier Muhammad My Crazy Cousin!
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Cedrick Goodman @Cassandra, come on you know that was a good one. lol,.
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Cassandra Grier Muhammad LOL!
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Cassandra Grier Muhammad Take a nap!
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Cedrick Goodman @Cassandra. (smile)
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Robert McGee I wish for that sometimes and my wife nuges me and whispers..."WAKE UP, IT AIN'T HAPPENIN"".... damn!, sweet dreams....
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Cedrick Goodman @Robert, you gotta give her an incentive bro, (smile)
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Robert McGee Ced, 30yrs Ced...30yrs but she doesn't need to tell me, she knows lol
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Cedrick Goodman Thats what up. (smile)
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Robert McGee LOL
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Are men afraid to approach women or do men need to take control?
Cedrick GoodmanStayed up late last night talking with a lady friend and she told me to make this my topic today. Although personally I disagreed, I said I would. Ladies do you tink men are too scared to approach you or men just need to a take more control?
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Kathy M. Jones I don't think they're afraid, but I do think the average man don't know what to say, so they say something stupid.
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Lisa Thomas I think its a matter of maybe getting rejected.....therefore a man may not approach out of fear of rejection which is normal we all want to be accepted in some way shape or form.
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Sarah Flemming Gautier I agree with Lisa - They look at you and think she's going to say no so they're move on or go to someone who they think may say yes.
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Georgene Purnell-Avrette I'd agree that some are afraid, they are afraid of being rejected!
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Verne L Finney well well Let me say this first ladies your friends can hurt your chances of being approached learn how to shy away when being out giving yourself a chance to be approached 1st off secound this is funny I was Married to a lisa thomas lol from BKNY
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Shannon Robinson Pollard No!!! But the approach is always wrong so it's a turn off!!!
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Cedrick Goodman To all the ladies who answered. I can't speak for other men, but this true concerning me. I hate rejection especially from a sista I'm attracted too and who I want to kick it with. I remember a girl telling me she thought I was gay because I was quiet and appeared shy. I was like dam, I just was'nt cool with rejection ma. Never gay, or down low ever ma. But of course later on we hooked up and now she still wants a brotha. Go figure. lol.
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Sarah Flemming Gautier I agree - please don't approach me with your pants hanging down, the yo ma, the yo shorty etc - that makes me run fast the other way
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Eu'nice Earlette I dnt kno if I would use the term "afraid" but I have been told tht I look mean and tht they were intimidated... so I'm almost never approached...so guys if ya reading this I am one of the nicest and coolest sistahs u may ever come across...take a chance! lol
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Cedrick Goodman @Sarah, thats not what you told me last night. lol.
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Sarah Flemming Gautier Cedrick - if I had told you something last night you wouldn't have your other post going on now! wink - speaking of being afraid to approach a sista! HA HA
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Cedrick Goodman @Sarah. (smile)
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Verne L Finney Well i dont have a fear its just mentally most cant continue a open minded discussion on reality tho they claim to be open minded so i just date for now cause im not beat Feel Me lol!
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Sarah Flemming Gautier @ Cedrick - What?!? I quieted you down with one answer! LOL you should call again - we had interesting conversations!
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Eu'nice Earlette I'm curious to hear some views on women approaching men...wht are your feelings on tht?
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Sarah Flemming Gautier I don't approach men but it's because I was raised in the South and was taught not to do that. Maybe one day I'll break out of that, but as for now, I sit back and wait.
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Cedrick Goodman @Sarah, I was watching a video sent to me. I think it should be a real talk anthem to some sista's not all, but some. lol. Thanks Lisa.
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Eu'nice Earlette I was raised tht way too...but I'm slowly changing with age, wisdom and time!
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Cedrick Goodman I think sista's should approach men as well. I like an aggressive sista, but I have to be attracted to her, to take it further. (smile)
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Sarah Flemming Gautier I agree with you Eu'nice - I'm slowly changing, especially when I'm trying to duck the gold teeth granddaddy's thinking I'm looking for a suga daddy
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Verne L Finney Heck wheres the Suga mamas LOL!
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Sarah Flemming Gautier LOL Verne you're funny! Now see Cedrick - a woman gets up her nerve to come and talk to you and you kick her to the curb saying you're not attracted to her!
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Eu'nice Earlette Lol sometime u just have to go for who or wht u wnt...providing he's single and available the worst he can say is not interested...if yur a confidant sistah it takes nothing away from u...as they say on to the next one! Lol
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Eu'nice Earlette I think confidence is key... he/she may not be the most attractive person but confidence will get u a long way...confidence is sexy as hell!
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Sarah Flemming Gautier I hear you girl! I think maybe I'll push up on Cedrick and see what happens.
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Eu'nice Earlette Lol @ sarah! Go for it!!!!!!!
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Sarah Flemming Gautier Don't you see him running!
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Eu'nice Earlette I know he's been real quiet lol
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Cedrick Goodman @Sarah, No like most men I probably missed the sign at that moment. (smile)
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Eu'nice Earlette Lol thnx!
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Sarah Flemming Gautier Is that right? LOL
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Desiree Jones From my experience, I say yes! I think that men are afraid, and the ones that are not afraid need to learn how to approach women!
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Cedrick Goodman See yall gonna make me lose my mind up in hear up in hear. (smile)
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Sarah Flemming Gautier just giving you and Verne a little entertainment - I see Verne don't run - ha ha - U might want to take some lessons Cedrick! I just couldn't resist.
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Cedrick Goodman @Sarah, Daddy never runs baby believe me. I'm chatting with two people at the same time, so now. (smile) Just let me know when your butt hits NJ or I might have to come south. (smile)
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Sarah Flemming Gautier I was up there for the Rutgers game and for the Pinstripe Bowl game - no Ceddy Ced!
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Janeen Y. McLendon I find Men to be to scared and the reason why I say that is because most men say they believe I'm mean or they just don't know how to "read me" I'm the nicest woman!! So yes I'm wishing Men will just take control and say something that I Pray is worth listening to. @ Eu'nice, I don't think there nothing with approaching a man. If its something u want and it looks or u know he has Great Potential go for it..don't miss out on ur Blessing!!
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Cedrick Goodman See we could have hung out for laughs and drinks. let me know next time ok.
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Sarah Flemming Gautier I'll let you know - ha ha that way I can see you running in person!
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Allison Carey I think often times men are intimidated. In fact in many cases, and as time goes on, certain men have admitted to not having stepped to me sooner out of fear of rejection. Oh well, their loss! ;-)
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Cedrick Goodman @Ali, true you & jill do be looking kinda of mean sometimes. lol. The smile seems to say ok you can approach. (smile) How you holding up?
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Allison Carey I'm hanging in there. Even so, I'm always smiling...
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Cedrick Goodman
@Janeen (smile) Some men need for women to be direct. Alot of men and women like or prefer to be spoken too directly by telling them what you want instead of beating around the bush or saying subtle things while expecting him to catch what... a women is trying to say or hint at. Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus I've been told. If you want a relationship tell him, If you want him to come over and rock your world and put you to sleep tell him.See More
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Sarah Flemming Gautier Ced come rock my world and put me to sleep! LOL :D I just couldn't resist!
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Cedrick Goodman @Sarah don't be mad at me when your late for work in the morning. (smile)
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Sarah Flemming Gautier lol hmmm - Looking out the window for you! :D
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Cedrick Goodman (smile)
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Tanya Copprue
I have been told by some men that they took one whiff of my perfume, and knew they were out of their league! Seriously LOL! But I do think some men may be intimidated when approaching some women. Men are visual creatures by nature and while... they don't read facial cues as much as women they do look for a smile and friendliness as a means to see if a woman is approachable. As a therapist, I've been told by men that sisters always look mean or have an "don't even think about it" look that drives them away. Personally, I feel that if you have an outgoing and attractive personality you will naturally attract the same kind of people. Like attracts like! If you are giving off vibes that you're lonely, desperate, and miserable, you are not going to attract the cream of the crop, and even if you're gorgeous it doesn't matter. Human beings have a higher sense of intelligent than just pheronmones & chemistry, although this also plays a big aspect on the initial meeting. Some women are just not the matching sniff for the animalistic nature within. We are a survival species first so, our animal nature sniffs out who we are sexually and chemically attracted too. But again I believe its also spiritual, and I know for a fact that I don't attract rift rafts, or players, they come within 20 feet of me and can feel my God-force! So I think you attract who you are and if the man recognizes on a higher level, even if he is not consciously aware of it, that you are not on his level, then he will move on to someone who is! Blessings!See More
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Tanya Copprue
Oh and as far as women approaching men, unless its for networking purposes, I'd steer clear! Men are hunters by nature! Why go against nature! The dog chases the cat! Meow! When a man has to work hard for something, he respects and values i...t! I say let a man follow the nature of his design, and if you're seeking marriage, this is imperative. The word say HE who finds a wife, finds a good thing! Never said She! But hey that's just my thinking! But I never had a problem with my babe hunting me, he's still panting!! LOL!See More
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Kathy M. Jones I don't think they're afraid, but I do think the average man don't know what to say, so they say something stupid.
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Lisa Thomas I think its a matter of maybe getting rejected.....therefore a man may not approach out of fear of rejection which is normal we all want to be accepted in some way shape or form.
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Sarah Flemming Gautier I agree with Lisa - They look at you and think she's going to say no so they're move on or go to someone who they think may say yes.
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Georgene Purnell-Avrette I'd agree that some are afraid, they are afraid of being rejected!
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Verne L Finney well well Let me say this first ladies your friends can hurt your chances of being approached learn how to shy away when being out giving yourself a chance to be approached 1st off secound this is funny I was Married to a lisa thomas lol from BKNY
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Shannon Robinson Pollard No!!! But the approach is always wrong so it's a turn off!!!
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Cedrick Goodman To all the ladies who answered. I can't speak for other men, but this true concerning me. I hate rejection especially from a sista I'm attracted too and who I want to kick it with. I remember a girl telling me she thought I was gay because I was quiet and appeared shy. I was like dam, I just was'nt cool with rejection ma. Never gay, or down low ever ma. But of course later on we hooked up and now she still wants a brotha. Go figure. lol.
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Sarah Flemming Gautier I agree - please don't approach me with your pants hanging down, the yo ma, the yo shorty etc - that makes me run fast the other way
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Eu'nice Earlette I dnt kno if I would use the term "afraid" but I have been told tht I look mean and tht they were intimidated... so I'm almost never approached...so guys if ya reading this I am one of the nicest and coolest sistahs u may ever come across...take a chance! lol
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Cedrick Goodman @Sarah, thats not what you told me last night. lol.
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Sarah Flemming Gautier Cedrick - if I had told you something last night you wouldn't have your other post going on now! wink - speaking of being afraid to approach a sista! HA HA
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Cedrick Goodman @Sarah. (smile)
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Verne L Finney Well i dont have a fear its just mentally most cant continue a open minded discussion on reality tho they claim to be open minded so i just date for now cause im not beat Feel Me lol!
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Sarah Flemming Gautier @ Cedrick - What?!? I quieted you down with one answer! LOL you should call again - we had interesting conversations!
7 hours ago · LikeUnlike
Eu'nice Earlette I'm curious to hear some views on women approaching men...wht are your feelings on tht?
7 hours ago · LikeUnlike
Sarah Flemming Gautier I don't approach men but it's because I was raised in the South and was taught not to do that. Maybe one day I'll break out of that, but as for now, I sit back and wait.
7 hours ago · LikeUnlike
Cedrick Goodman @Sarah, I was watching a video sent to me. I think it should be a real talk anthem to some sista's not all, but some. lol. Thanks Lisa.
7 hours ago · LikeUnlike
Eu'nice Earlette I was raised tht way too...but I'm slowly changing with age, wisdom and time!
7 hours ago · LikeUnlike
Cedrick Goodman I think sista's should approach men as well. I like an aggressive sista, but I have to be attracted to her, to take it further. (smile)
7 hours ago · LikeUnlike
Sarah Flemming Gautier I agree with you Eu'nice - I'm slowly changing, especially when I'm trying to duck the gold teeth granddaddy's thinking I'm looking for a suga daddy
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Verne L Finney Heck wheres the Suga mamas LOL!
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Sarah Flemming Gautier LOL Verne you're funny! Now see Cedrick - a woman gets up her nerve to come and talk to you and you kick her to the curb saying you're not attracted to her!
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Eu'nice Earlette Lol sometime u just have to go for who or wht u wnt...providing he's single and available the worst he can say is not interested...if yur a confidant sistah it takes nothing away from u...as they say on to the next one! Lol
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Eu'nice Earlette I think confidence is key... he/she may not be the most attractive person but confidence will get u a long way...confidence is sexy as hell!
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Sarah Flemming Gautier I hear you girl! I think maybe I'll push up on Cedrick and see what happens.
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Eu'nice Earlette Lol @ sarah! Go for it!!!!!!!
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Sarah Flemming Gautier Don't you see him running!
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Eu'nice Earlette I know he's been real quiet lol
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Cedrick Goodman @Sarah, No like most men I probably missed the sign at that moment. (smile)
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Eu'nice Earlette Lol thnx!
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Sarah Flemming Gautier Is that right? LOL
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Desiree Jones From my experience, I say yes! I think that men are afraid, and the ones that are not afraid need to learn how to approach women!
6 hours ago · LikeUnlike
Cedrick Goodman See yall gonna make me lose my mind up in hear up in hear. (smile)
6 hours ago · LikeUnlike
Sarah Flemming Gautier just giving you and Verne a little entertainment - I see Verne don't run - ha ha - U might want to take some lessons Cedrick! I just couldn't resist.
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Cedrick Goodman @Sarah, Daddy never runs baby believe me. I'm chatting with two people at the same time, so now. (smile) Just let me know when your butt hits NJ or I might have to come south. (smile)
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Sarah Flemming Gautier I was up there for the Rutgers game and for the Pinstripe Bowl game - no Ceddy Ced!
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Janeen Y. McLendon I find Men to be to scared and the reason why I say that is because most men say they believe I'm mean or they just don't know how to "read me" I'm the nicest woman!! So yes I'm wishing Men will just take control and say something that I Pray is worth listening to. @ Eu'nice, I don't think there nothing with approaching a man. If its something u want and it looks or u know he has Great Potential go for it..don't miss out on ur Blessing!!
6 hours ago · LikeUnlike
Cedrick Goodman See we could have hung out for laughs and drinks. let me know next time ok.
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Sarah Flemming Gautier I'll let you know - ha ha that way I can see you running in person!
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Allison Carey I think often times men are intimidated. In fact in many cases, and as time goes on, certain men have admitted to not having stepped to me sooner out of fear of rejection. Oh well, their loss! ;-)
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Cedrick Goodman @Ali, true you & jill do be looking kinda of mean sometimes. lol. The smile seems to say ok you can approach. (smile) How you holding up?
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Allison Carey I'm hanging in there. Even so, I'm always smiling...
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Cedrick Goodman
@Janeen (smile) Some men need for women to be direct. Alot of men and women like or prefer to be spoken too directly by telling them what you want instead of beating around the bush or saying subtle things while expecting him to catch what... a women is trying to say or hint at. Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus I've been told. If you want a relationship tell him, If you want him to come over and rock your world and put you to sleep tell him.See More
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Sarah Flemming Gautier Ced come rock my world and put me to sleep! LOL :D I just couldn't resist!
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Cedrick Goodman @Sarah don't be mad at me when your late for work in the morning. (smile)
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Sarah Flemming Gautier lol hmmm - Looking out the window for you! :D
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Cedrick Goodman (smile)
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Tanya Copprue
I have been told by some men that they took one whiff of my perfume, and knew they were out of their league! Seriously LOL! But I do think some men may be intimidated when approaching some women. Men are visual creatures by nature and while... they don't read facial cues as much as women they do look for a smile and friendliness as a means to see if a woman is approachable. As a therapist, I've been told by men that sisters always look mean or have an "don't even think about it" look that drives them away. Personally, I feel that if you have an outgoing and attractive personality you will naturally attract the same kind of people. Like attracts like! If you are giving off vibes that you're lonely, desperate, and miserable, you are not going to attract the cream of the crop, and even if you're gorgeous it doesn't matter. Human beings have a higher sense of intelligent than just pheronmones & chemistry, although this also plays a big aspect on the initial meeting. Some women are just not the matching sniff for the animalistic nature within. We are a survival species first so, our animal nature sniffs out who we are sexually and chemically attracted too. But again I believe its also spiritual, and I know for a fact that I don't attract rift rafts, or players, they come within 20 feet of me and can feel my God-force! So I think you attract who you are and if the man recognizes on a higher level, even if he is not consciously aware of it, that you are not on his level, then he will move on to someone who is! Blessings!See More
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Tanya Copprue
Oh and as far as women approaching men, unless its for networking purposes, I'd steer clear! Men are hunters by nature! Why go against nature! The dog chases the cat! Meow! When a man has to work hard for something, he respects and values i...t! I say let a man follow the nature of his design, and if you're seeking marriage, this is imperative. The word say HE who finds a wife, finds a good thing! Never said She! But hey that's just my thinking! But I never had a problem with my babe hunting me, he's still panting!! LOL!See More
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