Cedrick GoodmanStayed up late last night talking with a lady friend and she told me to make this my topic today. Although personally I disagreed, I said I would. Ladies do you tink men are too scared to approach you or men just need to a take more control?
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Kathy M. Jones I don't think they're afraid, but I do think the average man don't know what to say, so they say something stupid.
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Lisa Thomas I think its a matter of maybe getting rejected.....therefore a man may not approach out of fear of rejection which is normal we all want to be accepted in some way shape or form.
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Sarah Flemming Gautier I agree with Lisa - They look at you and think she's going to say no so they're move on or go to someone who they think may say yes.
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Georgene Purnell-Avrette I'd agree that some are afraid, they are afraid of being rejected!
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Verne L Finney well well Let me say this first ladies your friends can hurt your chances of being approached learn how to shy away when being out giving yourself a chance to be approached 1st off secound this is funny I was Married to a lisa thomas lol from BKNY
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Shannon Robinson Pollard No!!! But the approach is always wrong so it's a turn off!!!
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Cedrick Goodman To all the ladies who answered. I can't speak for other men, but this true concerning me. I hate rejection especially from a sista I'm attracted too and who I want to kick it with. I remember a girl telling me she thought I was gay because I was quiet and appeared shy. I was like dam, I just was'nt cool with rejection ma. Never gay, or down low ever ma. But of course later on we hooked up and now she still wants a brotha. Go figure. lol.
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Sarah Flemming Gautier I agree - please don't approach me with your pants hanging down, the yo ma, the yo shorty etc - that makes me run fast the other way
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Eu'nice Earlette I dnt kno if I would use the term "afraid" but I have been told tht I look mean and tht they were intimidated... so I'm almost never approached...so guys if ya reading this I am one of the nicest and coolest sistahs u may ever come across...take a chance! lol
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Cedrick Goodman @Sarah, thats not what you told me last night. lol.
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Sarah Flemming Gautier Cedrick - if I had told you something last night you wouldn't have your other post going on now! wink - speaking of being afraid to approach a sista! HA HA
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Cedrick Goodman @Sarah. (smile)
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Verne L Finney Well i dont have a fear its just mentally most cant continue a open minded discussion on reality tho they claim to be open minded so i just date for now cause im not beat Feel Me lol!
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Sarah Flemming Gautier @ Cedrick - What?!? I quieted you down with one answer! LOL you should call again - we had interesting conversations!
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Eu'nice Earlette I'm curious to hear some views on women approaching men...wht are your feelings on tht?
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Sarah Flemming Gautier I don't approach men but it's because I was raised in the South and was taught not to do that. Maybe one day I'll break out of that, but as for now, I sit back and wait.
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Cedrick Goodman @Sarah, I was watching a video sent to me. I think it should be a real talk anthem to some sista's not all, but some. lol. Thanks Lisa.
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Eu'nice Earlette I was raised tht way too...but I'm slowly changing with age, wisdom and time!
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Cedrick Goodman I think sista's should approach men as well. I like an aggressive sista, but I have to be attracted to her, to take it further. (smile)
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Sarah Flemming Gautier I agree with you Eu'nice - I'm slowly changing, especially when I'm trying to duck the gold teeth granddaddy's thinking I'm looking for a suga daddy
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Verne L Finney Heck wheres the Suga mamas LOL!
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Sarah Flemming Gautier LOL Verne you're funny! Now see Cedrick - a woman gets up her nerve to come and talk to you and you kick her to the curb saying you're not attracted to her!
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Eu'nice Earlette Lol sometime u just have to go for who or wht u wnt...providing he's single and available the worst he can say is not interested...if yur a confidant sistah it takes nothing away from u...as they say on to the next one! Lol
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Eu'nice Earlette I think confidence is key... he/she may not be the most attractive person but confidence will get u a long way...confidence is sexy as hell!
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Sarah Flemming Gautier I hear you girl! I think maybe I'll push up on Cedrick and see what happens.
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Eu'nice Earlette Lol @ sarah! Go for it!!!!!!!
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Sarah Flemming Gautier Don't you see him running!
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Eu'nice Earlette I know he's been real quiet lol
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Cedrick Goodman @Sarah, No like most men I probably missed the sign at that moment. (smile)
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Eu'nice Earlette Lol thnx!
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Sarah Flemming Gautier Is that right? LOL
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Desiree Jones From my experience, I say yes! I think that men are afraid, and the ones that are not afraid need to learn how to approach women!
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Cedrick Goodman See yall gonna make me lose my mind up in hear up in hear. (smile)
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Sarah Flemming Gautier just giving you and Verne a little entertainment - I see Verne don't run - ha ha - U might want to take some lessons Cedrick! I just couldn't resist.
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Cedrick Goodman @Sarah, Daddy never runs baby believe me. I'm chatting with two people at the same time, so now. (smile) Just let me know when your butt hits NJ or I might have to come south. (smile)
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Sarah Flemming Gautier I was up there for the Rutgers game and for the Pinstripe Bowl game - no Ceddy Ced!
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Janeen Y. McLendon I find Men to be to scared and the reason why I say that is because most men say they believe I'm mean or they just don't know how to "read me" I'm the nicest woman!! So yes I'm wishing Men will just take control and say something that I Pray is worth listening to. @ Eu'nice, I don't think there nothing with approaching a man. If its something u want and it looks or u know he has Great Potential go for it..don't miss out on ur Blessing!!
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Cedrick Goodman See we could have hung out for laughs and drinks. let me know next time ok.
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Sarah Flemming Gautier I'll let you know - ha ha that way I can see you running in person!
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Allison Carey I think often times men are intimidated. In fact in many cases, and as time goes on, certain men have admitted to not having stepped to me sooner out of fear of rejection. Oh well, their loss! ;-)
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Cedrick Goodman @Ali, true you & jill do be looking kinda of mean sometimes. lol. The smile seems to say ok you can approach. (smile) How you holding up?
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Allison Carey I'm hanging in there. Even so, I'm always smiling...
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Cedrick Goodman
@Janeen (smile) Some men need for women to be direct. Alot of men and women like or prefer to be spoken too directly by telling them what you want instead of beating around the bush or saying subtle things while expecting him to catch what... a women is trying to say or hint at. Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus I've been told. If you want a relationship tell him, If you want him to come over and rock your world and put you to sleep tell him.See More
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Sarah Flemming Gautier Ced come rock my world and put me to sleep! LOL :D I just couldn't resist!
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Cedrick Goodman @Sarah don't be mad at me when your late for work in the morning. (smile)
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Sarah Flemming Gautier lol hmmm - Looking out the window for you! :D
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Cedrick Goodman (smile)
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Tanya Copprue
I have been told by some men that they took one whiff of my perfume, and knew they were out of their league! Seriously LOL! But I do think some men may be intimidated when approaching some women. Men are visual creatures by nature and while... they don't read facial cues as much as women they do look for a smile and friendliness as a means to see if a woman is approachable. As a therapist, I've been told by men that sisters always look mean or have an "don't even think about it" look that drives them away. Personally, I feel that if you have an outgoing and attractive personality you will naturally attract the same kind of people. Like attracts like! If you are giving off vibes that you're lonely, desperate, and miserable, you are not going to attract the cream of the crop, and even if you're gorgeous it doesn't matter. Human beings have a higher sense of intelligent than just pheronmones & chemistry, although this also plays a big aspect on the initial meeting. Some women are just not the matching sniff for the animalistic nature within. We are a survival species first so, our animal nature sniffs out who we are sexually and chemically attracted too. But again I believe its also spiritual, and I know for a fact that I don't attract rift rafts, or players, they come within 20 feet of me and can feel my God-force! So I think you attract who you are and if the man recognizes on a higher level, even if he is not consciously aware of it, that you are not on his level, then he will move on to someone who is! Blessings!See More
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Tanya Copprue
Oh and as far as women approaching men, unless its for networking purposes, I'd steer clear! Men are hunters by nature! Why go against nature! The dog chases the cat! Meow! When a man has to work hard for something, he respects and values i...t! I say let a man follow the nature of his design, and if you're seeking marriage, this is imperative. The word say HE who finds a wife, finds a good thing! Never said She! But hey that's just my thinking! But I never had a problem with my babe hunting me, he's still panting!! LOL!See More
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